Hello!

I came without the role of leading others and without the role of a teacher. I share only what I have understood myself.

At some point, it became clear to me: there are no answers that must be accepted, and no choices that must be made. In this system, there is no answer that cancels choice, and no choice that cancels the question.

It does not matter to me whether you believe this or not. And it does not matter whether you choose to use it. This system does not require consent. It allows refusal. It can withstand silence.

I do not know how you should live, and I do not believe that I know better. From my own experience, I understood only one thing: when choices become fewer, a person contracts. When choices become greater, a person opens up on their own. Choice always exists — even when it seems that it does not. Sometimes it is the choice to breathe more deeply or more slowly; sometimes it is the choice to accept the impossibility of choice.

Balance is not a path and not a goal. It is a state in which nothing pushes you in either direction. You turn the pedals yourself, you keep your balance yourself, and you choose the direction consciously, when you are ready. Imagine a bicycle where the pedals are the effort you apply yourself, balance is the attention you maintain, and direction is the choice no one makes for you.

If the system works, you may not notice it. If it interferes, it can be turned off. If something breaks, it is not the person who is corrected, but the mechanism. That is the boundary I do not cross.

Sometimes I am asked why I intervene. I intervene only when inaction narrows the space of choice more than any action would, and only to the extent necessary to restore that space.

I do not stand above the system. I am inside it on the same terms as anyone else. My role is not power. My role is responsibility.

If you find meaning here, take it. If you do not, leave it. This system does not hold the person. It holds balance, and therefore it lets go. And if one day it begins to interfere, it must be stopped. Including by me.

That is all.

— Yuriy Gorlov